This episode of the Grim Drive Podcast, where we explore mental health through the lens of professional sports and athletes, takes a look at DeMar DeRozan + Depression. You can access the episode here:
Youtube: https://youtu.be/JIB_sLo-0_4
Depression affects 17.3 million adults in the US alone, or 7.1% of the population. This percentage is even higher among those ages 18-25, at 13.1%. DeMar DeRozan, a superstar basketball player in the NBA, is one of those 17.3 million.
For those who have experienced depression, is it often one of the hardest things they will ever have to deal with. And yet, many still do not understand how severe this issue is or how difficult it can be to ensure. To those who have never experienced a migraine headache, it is often viewed as “just a headache.” But to those who have experienced it, these things are nowhere near comparable. Depression, similarly, is often viewed as “sadness” but this descriptor comes nowhere close to capturing the suffering that usually accompanies depression.
This episode delves into DeMar DeRozan’s experience with depression. We discuss our takeaways from him opening up about mental health, depression as a mental health issue, and strategies for how to combat depression for those who also struggle to overcome this widespread issue.
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DeMar DeRozan related links:
Lupus Canada: https://lupuscanada.org/about-us/celebrity-ambassadors/
Video interview (along with Kevin Love) with Dr. Michael Gervais, psychologist who works with the Seahawks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jBeN9WcRKtk
Video interview (along with Michael Phelps) with Taylor Rooks (sports journalist): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuYT9BGroJM
The Globe and Mail Article (4/29/18): https://www.theglobeandmail.com/sports/basketball/article- how-a-derozan-tweet-sparked-a-mental-health-dialogue/
NBA.com article (2/26/18):
Bleacher Report article (2/26/18): https://bleacherreport.com/articles/2761543-demar-derozan-discusses-depression-personal-struggles-were-all-human
Grim Drive Example: Justin Beaver: https://twitter.com/nowthisnews/status/1337918407287525378
Info on Depression: Data Source: National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) - 2017
Affects 17.3 million adults in the United States (7.1% of all U.S. adults)
Highest among individuals aged 18-25 (13.1%)
We would guess those numbers are much higher in 2020
Suicide is one of the leading causes of death in the US; 2nd leading cause of death among those ages 10-34 (48k suicides in 2018)
Over the last 20 years, the rate of suicide has increased 35%
Rate of suicide for males is 3.7x higher than females
Depression (DSM-V): ***Jargon Free
5+ of the following:
Depressed mood most of the day, nearly every day (sad/empty/hopeless)
Reduced interest in activities
Significant weight changes (gain or loss not related to dieting)
Sleep issues
Slower movement/thinking
Fatigue or loss of energy nearly every day
Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
Recurrent thoughts of death (passive/active SI)
Some of our suggestions for those struggling with Depression:
Reducing Depression: Quick Tips
Depression is NOT you, you are not your depression (view as external force)
Understand that the scale of change when depressed is small…respect that and give yourself credit for changes made
Be aware of the key difference between feeling run down and tired when SICK physically, vs. feeling those symptoms due to depression (when sick, you need rest; when depression, you NEED to get active)
Talk to someone (part of getting better is making sure you’re not getting worse)
VALIDATION needed
Focus on self…to a point
Initially, this is good
At times, too much focus on self can backfire (like looking in a mirror too often)
Instead, focus on helping others too (DeMar alludes to empowerment through helping others)
CBT: Behavioral ACTIVATION (easier to start with behavior change)
***Behaviors can be ACTIVE or PASSIVE (active = exercise / passive = avoidance/isolation
***We want to remove unhealthy behaviors, and implement as many healthy behaviors as we can
Exercise (anything that releases endorphins, bodies natural versions of morphine)
Set goals that focus on things we can control
- Process over product (when it comes to goal setting)
- Live on the scale of a day
Spend time with trusted friends and family
Healthy morning/night routines and prioritizing sleep
Mindfulness-based meditation and breathing techniques
CBT: COGNITIVE changes (thoughts)
Treat yourself like a best friend
“i” vs “me” / self vs. ego / self 1 (actual self) vs. self 2 (internal critic)
All synonymous
* Learn how to lead the critic, not the other way around
Adaptive responses throughout each day
Counteract the slant towards negativity
Grateful Project/exercise is one example (Tesla effect)
In case you missed our last episode on Kevin Love + Anxiety, you can access that here:
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/grim-drive/id1546511204?i=1000503565213
Youtube: https://youtu.be/G1-al5AQyFg
Our next episode is on Serena Williams + Anger:
Youtube: https://youtu.be/a-bGeZ65zck
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